1. Freedom in Relationship Systems
Freedom in relationship systems is one of the most important values in non-committed relationships. When there is freedom in relationships, each side can be themselves, express themselves, and act according to their wishes without fear of commitments or limitations. This allows each side to experience relationships naturally and authentically, without feeling the need to change themselves to meet the expectations of their partners.

Freedom in relationship systems can also be challenging to manage since it requires adjustment and understanding of the needs of both sides. To maintain freedom in relationships, it is important to listen to each other, understand and respect the wishes of the partners, and invest time and effort in building healthy communication and setting clear boundaries.
Freedom in relationships can be beneficial if conducted responsibly and consciously
Shira Cohen – Relationship Systems Specialist and Couples Therapist
In the end, freedom in relationship systems leads to refreshing and fascinating companionships, where everyone is in the right place for them and feels free to be themselves. This allows everyone to grow and flourish in relationships and enjoy love and companionship authentically and wonderfully in daily life.
2. Time and Distance Planning
In the initial stage of any relationship, it is important to establish a temporal and spatial plan. This is a crucial moment where the parties define the frequency of meetings, conversations, and interactions between them. This planning allows both sides to be aware of each other’s needs and adjust the times to their daily activities.
To succeed in time and distance planning, it is important to be stable and consistent in defining the plan. This includes setting fixed meeting days, call times, and communication and aligning them with the leisure times of both parties.
Furthermore, it is important to be informed about the geographical distances between the parties. The larger the distance, the more important it is to efficiently and wisely plan the times and distances between meetings and communication.

Upon completing the time and distance planning, it is important to maintain coordination of the action plan and be honest and transparent with each other. This will help create strong and healthy relationships between the parties even without formal commitments.
3. Communication Between Partners
Communication between partners is one of the most important factors for the success of non-committed relationship systems. How can we improve communication between partners to ensure it is generous and effective?
One way to improve communication between partners is to listen carefully to your partner. When they speak, pay attention to their words, tone of voice, and facial expressions. Make an effort to understand the emotions they are trying to convey and respond calmly and consciously to their needs.
Another tip for improving communication between partners is to express your feelings clearly and openly. Do not expect your partner to read your mind; expressions like “I feel” can help your partner understand your inner world and respond accordingly.
Additionally, it is important to be open to change and learning. Communication is a dynamic process that requires flexibility and the ability to adapt to the needs of the relationship. When we are willing to change our behavior and learn from our partner, we can significantly improve communication between partners.
In summary, communication between partners is central to building a healthy and fulfilling relationship system. We must listen, express feelings clearly, and be open to change and learning to ensure that communication between partners is successful and beneficial.
4. Boundaries and Personal Boundaries
Boundaries are an integral part of any relationship system, especially in non-committed relationship systems. Boundaries help us understand our expectations and those of our partners in relationships, so we can act accordingly and maintain privacy and respect.
Freedom in relationships can be beneficial if conducted responsibly and consciously
Shira Cohen – Relationship Systems Specialist and Couples Therapist


When there are clear and understood boundaries in a relationship system, we can focus on stability and peace of mind. Personal boundaries indicate our feelings about what is right for us and what is not, and limit the partner’s behavior towards us accordingly.
To maintain clear and healthy boundaries, it is important to understand ourselves and discuss our needs and desires. When we understand ourselves, we can convey this information to our partners and create healthy boundaries together.
On the other hand, it is important to be flexible and understand the boundaries of the partner towards us. This can lead to stability and peace of mind in relationships and prevent conflicts.

In conclusion, boundaries and personal boundaries are an important part of non-committed relationship systems. They help us build healthy and stable relationships, understand our needs and the needs of partners efficiently.
Freedom in relationships can be beneficial if conducted responsibly and consciously
Shira Cohen – Relationship Systems Specialist and Couples Therapist
The Influence of Society and Family on Relationships
Society and family are two of the most important components that influence our relationship systems. Growing up in a supportive and inviting social and family environment helps us develop positive social relationship skills and the ability to build deep and genuine connections with others.
In the family, we learn how to give and receive love, support, and understanding. This enables us to develop the ability to understand the emotions and needs of others and be sensitive to their needs. The family system can also improve our communication skills and allow us to become better partners in our personal relationships.
In society, we learn how to maintain positive social relationships and develop the ability to be part of a group and give and receive social support. Experience in a good society can make a huge difference in our ability to build healthy social relationships and assist in our relationship systems.
In summary, the influence of society and family on relationships is immense and important. We must understand these processes and invest in our ability to create healthy and supportive relationships with people around us.
